In England, the UK Government has told us that ‘humanist wedding ceremonies may take place, with up to 30 people, from 4 July in line with guidance outlined. This is also true for naming ceremonies. Ceremonies in England should follow the social distancing guidance, which says ‘To avoid risks of transmission and stay as safe as possible, you should always maintain social distancing with people you do not live with – indoors and outdoors. You should only have close social contact with others if you are in a support bubble with them. You should: …only gather in slightly larger groups of up to 30 for major life events…’
In Wales, on 20 July the Welsh Government changed the law to allow humanist naming ceremonies, provided that: no more than 30 people attend; social distancing is maintained; the ceremony is happening in a location that can be made Covid-secure (which includes it being a confined or enclosed space and having a risk assessment done); and that location is not on the list of locations that must remain closed. This means it is still not possible to hold humanist ceremonies in: restaurants, cafes, bars, pubs, theatres, concert halls, museums and galleries, holiday/camping sites, hotels, and B&Bs. But it is possible in fields, parks, beaches, private gardens, community halls, town halls, stately homes, and private homes that are large enough to host such gatherings. If you are unsure about where you may hold your humanist wedding, then please talk to a celebrant. We are working with the Welsh Government to expand this range of venues.
Our celebrants remain available to support you to plan your naming ceremony.
A humanist naming ceremony is a way of celebrating and welcoming a new addition to your family. It focuses on the child – or children – being named and the friends and family that surround them.
People choose to have a humanist naming ceremony because they want to bring family and friends together to celebrate one of life’s key milestones. They are ideal for families who want to mark the occasion in a way that isn’t religious.
A naming ceremony also provides the opportunity for those gathered to reflect the roles that key people will play in the life of the child.
Naming ceremonies are perfect for newborns or toddlers and many are combined with a first birthday celebration. But they don’t have to be limited to young children. They can be held whenever you’re ready: there’s no rush!
For older children they can be seen or used as a rite of passage or a celebration of your child’s growing maturity. They can also be the perfect way to welcome adopted children or step-children of any age into a family.
Humanist Ceremonies celebrants also conduct many ‘joint’ naming ceremonies for siblings. Sometimes families choose to combine wedding and naming ceremonies, which can be a wonderful option for couples who choose to marry after their children have been born, or where marriage represents the coming together of two families.
Naming ceremonies can be held wherever you want: at home, in the park, the garden, or your local village hall. They are becoming increasingly popular in a range of settings.
Each naming ceremony is unique. They might include music, singing, poems, readings, parental promises to their child, the appointment of ‘guideparents’, and perhaps a symbolic action such as planting a tree, signing a certificate, or writing in a wish book.
Your celebrant will:
‘So many people said to me it was the best naming they had ever been to and everything went perfectly!’
‘We had lots of people express how much they enjoyed the ceremony. I don’t think many had been to a naming ceremony before, so weren’t sure what to expect, but they absolutely loved it, as did we!’
‘From our very first meeting through to the ceremony, we could not have asked for a more genuinely lovely person to help celebrate our daughter’s naming day. So many guests have commented on how lovely the ceremony was; how personal and inclusive and unique it was to our family.’
‘There were lots of tears, laughter, and joy! Everyone ‘got’ what we did and were very impressed. We were so lucky to share it all with all our friends and family.’
Humanist Ceremonies™ makes recommendations for fees and suggests a band of £150 to £450 for naming ceremonies. (Prices vary according to the distance a celebrant needs to travel and the complexity and duration of the ceremony.) Many celebrants give an indication of their fees on their websites but do always check this with them when you enquire about their availability.
Humanists UK’s book, New Arrivals, includes lots of information and ideas on music and readings as well as sample ceremonies.
You can look for celebrants who conduct naming ceremonies in your area.
We’d love to hear from you if you’ve had a humanist naming ceremony and would like to share a photo and a tell us a bit about it for our naming blog. You can email us, tweet us, or contact us via Facebook.