Humanist weddings

If you’re starting to plan your wedding, congratulations!

We’re here to help you start your married life with a unique, personally-tailored ceremony that is meaningful to you.

Is a humanist wedding right for you?

Many of us who aren’t religious are looking for a wedding that is more flexible and personal than a civil or register office ceremony.

A humanist, non-religious wedding ceremony gives you the opportunity to marry where you want, when you want, and how you want. There’s no set script: it’s too personal an occasion for that. Instead, each wedding is tailored to you. You can set the tone that’s right for you and choose your own words and music.

Humanist weddings are perfect for couples who would like:

  • A meaningful ceremony that isn’t religious
  • To marry outdoors or at a location that isn’t licensed for civil weddings
  • The flexibility to create a personal ceremony that is unique to them
  • To get to know the person who will be conducting their wedding
  • To celebrate their marriage with family and friends but without legally registering – for example, when the formalities have already been conducted abroad.

Our celebrants are trained, friendly, and experienced people who will guide you through the process of creating a wedding that’s perfect for you. They will:

  • Meet and get to know you and what you want from the occasion
  • Share their ideas and draw on their experience
  • Write a unique ceremony tailored just for you
  • Edit the script in response to your feedback
  • Conduct the ceremony
  • Give you a presentation copy of the final script.

Legal status of humanist weddings in the UK

In the UK, marriage is a devolved issue: humanist marriages enjoy legal recognition in Scotland, Northern Ireland, but not yet in England and Wales.

In England and Wales, couples who want to have a humanist wedding will often go to the register office to take care of the legal formalities in the days before or after their ceremony.

Humanist weddings have been legally recognised in Northern Ireland since 2018 and in Jersey in the Channel Islands since 2019.

In Scotland, Humanist weddings gained legal recognition in 2005. Ceremonies are conducted by celebrants trained by Humanist Society Scotland.

Same-sex weddings

We support marriage equality and all our celebrants are available to conduct same-sex weddings, including in Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands. Find a celebrant near you if you would like to discuss a humanist same-sex wedding ceremony.

How much does a humanist wedding ceremony cost?

Fees vary according to the distance travelled and what is wanted from the occasion.Humanist Ceremonies™ provides recommended fee bands, but always check fees with the individual celebrant.

Find out more about humanist weddings

You can download our weddings leaflet , see our Frequently Asked Questions, read a sample structure of a wedding ceremony, or look for celebrants who conduct wedding ceremonies in your area.

You may also like to buy a copy of Humanists UK’s book, Sharing the Future. This includes information and ideas on music and readings.

Humanist wedding ceremonies have featured in many blogs and wedding websites including the following:

Share your wedding photos with us

We’d love to hear from you if you’ve had a humanist wedding and would like to share your photos with us.

We love hearing from our happy couples, so please leave us your feedback on our Facebook Page, tweet us @humanistwedding or send us a photo on Instagram to @humanistceremonies.